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Married and Yet Single

I’m reposting a post from 2009. I’ve never done this before so I’m not sure how it will work. If the comments transfer to the new post – they are from 2009 unless some new ones post. If you post – please do so anonymously.

I will monitor the responses.

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Are you married and yet feel single? Why and in what ways?

This is a question that is very personal! I would ask that everyone answer anonymously please. The purpose of this question is to awaken some of us who are married to understand our mates better – the reasons some feel single even though they are married. Please remember we have a wide audience and our examples or word pictures that answer this question should be G rated.

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November 15, 2017 Posted by | Build, Community, Daily Devotion, Discipleship, Encouragement, Faith Journey, Family, From the Pastor, Leadership, Marriage, Personal | 24 Comments

Love One Another – Please!

Romans 12:10

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

Some have had bad experiences growing up with family and some with church life. I talked to someone Tuesday that had a very bad experience with family and with the church.

Some of us aren’t sure how to love one another because we didn’t have a good model growing up. Some of us have a hard time showing love – even to those whom we are supposed to love. Growing up – if your home was void of expressions of love – it is something you had to learn as an adult (or still lack). Loving one another is not as easy as just saying the words.

I grew up in a loving home. I had a father and mother at home who loved each other and expressed that love – or modeled that expression of love – for their children. Did any of us grow up with siblings? I grew up with an older sister and a younger brother. We loved each other and still do today (mostly – LOL). Love was modeled for me growing up so it is easier for me to love others (though not easy – just easier). Continue reading

November 8, 2017 Posted by | Build, Church, Community, Daily Devotion, Discipleship, Encouragement, Evangelism, Faith Journey, Family, From the Pastor, Leadership, Marriage, Personal, Theology | , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Being Amazed!

Mark 4:41

They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”

I’ve been amazed a few times in my life. The first time was when I realized that Jesus loved me enough to die for me and to cover my sins. That just amazed me because I’m not worthy of such love.

Another time had to do with amazing love as well. It was when my wife said she would marry me. I was so amazed that a woman of her qualities would marry a man like me and – after 37 years – still stayed married to me.

Another time I was amazed was when my three daughters were born. To watch them come into the world and know that Carolyn and I had just given birth to three amazing girls – now that was amazing.

Another time I was amazed in my life was when Eddie Murray stood out in the rain in his expensive leather jacket to sign an autograph for me at old Memorial Stadium (after a game was canceled because of the rain). Continue reading

November 2, 2017 Posted by | Build, Church, Community, Daily Devotion, Discipleship, Encouragement, Evangelism, Faith Journey, Family, From the Pastor, Leadership, Marriage, Outreach, Personal, Prayer, Theology | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Love The Lord Our God

Deuteronomy 30:16

For I command you today to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to him, and to keep his commands, decrees and laws; then you will live and increase, and the Lord your God will bless you in the land you are entering to possess.

When I was dating – I tried hard to do things that would please the person I was dating. I tried to think what I could do that would make them happy. For some it was flowers – for no particular reason. For some it was a hand-made card. For another it was late night calls and conversation late into the night (even all night at times). Some liked to go to the movies and others to dinner. I tried to open doors and seat them first when we went somewhere.

When I was dating – I didn’t always please my dates. There were times when I was selfish. There were times I was possessive. There were times when I was jealous. These didn’t please my dates for sure. Continue reading

October 12, 2017 Posted by | Build, Church, Community, Daily Devotion, Discipleship, Encouragement, Evangelism, Faith Journey, Family, From the Pastor, Leadership, Marriage, Personal, Theology | , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Hold Unswervingly To The Hope

Hebrews 10:23

Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.

What is it we hope for in life? I posted something on Twitter and Facebook this past week about a parent’s hopes and dreams. I found it in one of my daily devotional readings on www.youverison.com. We want our children to have good jobs & healthy marriages & families, but what matters most is that they have a vital relationship with Jesus. Of course we want them to be happy and productive – but walking with Jesus is most important.

What is it we hope for in life? Some of us want to own a piece of the good earth. Some own larger pieces than others – some maybe larger pieces than they need (LOL). Some of us hope for material things or blessings. We care about what we drive or how many vehicles we own. Some of us hope for the latest greatest technology. Continue reading

October 11, 2017 Posted by | Build, Church, Community, Daily Devotion, Daily Prayer, Discipleship, Encouragement, Evangelism, Faith Journey, Family, From the Pastor, Leadership, Marriage, Personal, Theology | , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

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