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Good Character – What Is It?

1 Corinthians 15:33

Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

Rays HaircutHow would you define character? I believe that the best definition I ever heard for character is this – character is what you do when no one is looking. The things we do when we think no one is looking or when we think no one will find out – define our character. Let me give an example.

What is on your computer you wouldn’t want anyone else to see? Ouch – was that someone’s toe I stepped on right there? I’m not talking about your bank account or things like that – but rather your browser history – or your bookmarked sites – or your emails – or your Facebook account or other social media account. Who have you been in contact with you shouldn’t have been in contact with lately? If someone had access to your computer – would they see things you wouldn’t want them to see? Think about it? How about your cell phone – your pad or other device?

If character is what we would do if no one were watching – is there anything on your personal computer or devices you wouldn’t want anyone to know about? If married – does your spouse have your password for your email? For your Facebook account? To even get onto your computer/pad or cell phone? If not – why not? Are you trying to hide something from them? Continue reading

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We Gotta Love One Another

John 16:33

I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.

Rays HaircutI wish I had words or a solution for the hatred in the world. I wish there was a person or political party or nation that had the answers or even a good solution to work with moving forward. I wish our country could come together and rid ourselves of the hatred – the racism – the evil – in our country and in our world today. But I can’t and no one else can – it seems. Martin Luther King Jr. tried and he was killed for his efforts.

I’ve typed several blog posts about what we saw unfold on video before our eyes with the murder of George Floyd at the hands (knee) of Derek Chauvin – a former police officer that should have been weeded out long ago for his tactics and uncontrollable anger. I erased them all – because I have no idea how to deal with such hatred and evil.

Those who know me know I support law enforcement. I also know – I don’t know all that transpired before or during this incident – so anything I say is tainted by my ignorance. Having said that – I cannot sit in silence and not call out such hatred and evil – as we witnessed unfold on video.

I don’t have an answer for it all – but I do believe the answer might be found in telling more people about Jesus – and letting others see Jesus in us. I believe – if we were more excited and convinced of our faith – we would impact more people for Jesus. Continue reading

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Being An Encouragement and Strength

2 Timothy 4:17

But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. And I was delivered from the lion’s mouth.

Rays HaircutDuring this pandemic – I urge us to be there for one another. We never know when a word of encouragement or even our presence online with someone in need will be a memory that will get them through some difficult times in the future as well as that moment.

We connect every weeknight at 7 pm on Zoom – and some of our folks make it every night. Would we rather be face-to-face – of course we would! Would we rather be able to hug our children and grands – of course we would! But – being present as we are able – is still so essential in our relationships.

Paul had been encouraged by our Lord being by his side. Timothy was encouraged by Paul. Who encourages us? Whom do we encourage? Continue reading

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Servants of The Lord

Matthew 20:26-28

26 Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Ray 2020We are all called to be servant ministers to our Lord – not only the pastors – all of us – to be servants of the Lord. Along this line – a few years ago – I was asked why some pastors are not as involved in the community as they used to be? I know some pastors are for sure. Here was my answer (this came up on one of my pages recently).

That is a complex question or issue. Some pastors today are no less committed to their calling than pastors of earlier generations. What we have found over the years – the hard way – is that our families were often sacrificed on the altar of serving God.

Being a pastor is a high calling – but the divorce rate and broken family rate and even early retirement rate of pastors leads the way in many studies – partly because of the time spent away from the family. Being a pastor is not a 9-5 job where the family can plan around work hours. Being a pastor is a 24-7 calling. In my younger days – I would work 70-80 hours most weeks and at times more. There were times I wasn’t there for my wife and my children because of it. Maybe the Romans Catholics have a point in having their priests marry the church! Having said that – I have been a better grandparent than I was a parent. I attend less meetings and fellowship times at church – realizing the church will not fall a part because I do not attend – and that the church is more than the pastor and his or her presence (some in my church folks have complained about this though). Continue reading

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Gracious Words

Proverbs 16:24

Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.

Ray 2020One thing that the quarantine has given many of us is more time on social media. That is a two-edged sword for sure. It is good that some of us have been challenged to learn more and grow in our ability to connect with folks electronically. It is not so good that more people have an opportunity to share their thoughts and that some are so negative and mean.

Right in the middle of our great divide in our denomination and in our country (the USA) – this pandemic has given way too many who would increase our divide on social media and in the regular media. Negative comments about our President for instance – during a time of crisis – is not helping anyone. For some – the crisis is just a time to make political points. Continue reading

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